09 December 2008

TMI Tuesday #164 - sans vlog

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TMI Tuesday

Yes, it's TMI Tuesday, and no, there isn't a vlog today. I just wasn't feeling it this morning (the vlog bug - get your minds out of the gutter). So instead, you get those lovely, printed words! Are you ready?? Hold on tight because here we go!!

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1. Do you consider sexy underthings a present for you or your partner?

First of all, I don't know that my husband would ever consider lingerie as a gift option, not because of any flaw in him, but because I am pretty utilitarian. I tend to buy functional, not fashionable. I have no doubt he'd be surprised to find the few pieces of lingerie I've purchased in the last few months.

That being said, I guess the answer to this questions is that it is a gift to the person who appreciates it the most. If I were to give husband silk boxers, he'd think I was confused when I wrote the name tag for the gift (Cam wears silk boxers, husband? Traditional kind of guy). If husband bought me sexy lingerie, I'd see it as a gift for me even thought he would certainly enjoy it!

2. What are 3 characteristics of "your type"? Have you best relationship(s) been with your type or when you have gone against it?

I don't have a "type" - at least not a physical type. Sure, I am attracted initially to someone who takes care of themselves, dresses well (clean, unwrinkled clothes) and smells like they've had a shower that morning, but beyond that? Eh!

The things that are most important to me are things that it takes time to discover - intelligence, commitment, determination, unconditional love. Not easy things to find all in one package!

That saying? Opposites attract? Yeah, they attract like two trains on the same set of tracks and the result is usually just as bad!

3. What is on your Santa list this year?

Gifts of my time and service to others!

4. Generally speaking, who has historically had a higher libido, you or your partner(s)?

Generally speaking - I have - but I think that has been for all of the wrong reasons. Like many people, I've tried to fill the intimacy voids in a relationship with physical sex. Since that isn't possible, I keep wanting more and more sex thinking that if I can just get enough, it will fill that void. I'm working on filling those intimacy needs with intimacy, rather than sex, and find it far more fulfilling when I get it right.

5. The unsculptured female bush seems to have passed from fashion. What about men, do you think they need to trim and shave "down there"?

I think people need to do what they feel comfortable with. I happen to know quite a few men who like a woman to look unaltered. The bottom line? Do what feels right for you - what makes you feel good - and screw the "fashionable" ones.

Bonus (as in optional):What are a few of your favorite things (both sexual non-sexual)?

Splashing in mud puddles, touching, cheesecake - why is this sounding like a playboy centerfold profile? I'm having flashbacks to Biscuit-s TMI Tuesday last week!

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17 comments:

captain corky said...

I don't ever where silk boxers because I'd be bumping and banging into things all day long. ;)

Christo Gonzales said...

I slept on silk sheets once and almost slid right off the bed....

Schmoop said...

Did I ever tell you that one of my nicknames is, "The Void Filler"? I'd be happy to try to fill yours. Cheers Sexy!!

Real Live Lesbian said...

I'd buy that issue! :0

Anonymous said...

Ooops think I misunderstood the Santa list question. LOL

I don't give too much of my time but when I can I do give my spare change or let the girls put a $ in the salvation army buckets and try to explain to them that there are those who have less than we do. They are little and don't get it though.

I'd love to buy something for one of the senior angel trees. I feel so bad for the elderly who don't have basics at this time of year.

Vinny "Bond" Marini said...

I am a boxer-brief guy myself...love thunderstorms (like we are having here now), holding hands, kissing, cooking together...

OK, sorry...you mentioned Playboy centerfold profile and I just got lost in that

Anonymous said...

There is nothing better than being on silk sheets with a freshly manscaped male while eating cheesecake.

Oh my bad,got a little carried away in my thoughts there.

I'm back girl.I'm baaaaack!

Biscuit said...

I gave good old fashioned printed words today, too! 'Cause I wasn't feelin' it. Eery.

Cheesecake! I haven't thought about cheesecake in the longest time.

M said...

Yep, #8 was SO a Playboy answer :)

Jay said...

So you're saying that my Manscaping is okay with you? ;-)

Jennybean said...

Yeah... that's a centerfold profile, but I really do like the puddles and the cheesecake and all of that...

Jormengrund said...

The only thing missing from the Playboy Profile is your measurements!

I'm waiting... *inno*

Dana said...

Corky, OUCH! That might leave a mark!

Doggy, I slept on silk sheets once and THEY slid right of the bed!

Matt-Man, I should have known you'd fill my nooks and crannies!

Ms. Inconspicuous said...

Those would all make good centerfold PHOTOS...that's for sure. :)

Another Suburban Mom said...

Love the answers. I keep on wondering if pubic hair will come back in style.

Knight said...

Maybe you really do just have a big libido as well. It's a blessing and a curse.

rage said...

Splashing around in cheesecake? That sounds like one heck of an idea!

(wink)