1. What's your favorite color of lingerie?
Can I be honest here? Well, I guess that's the point of TMI Tuesday, isn't it?! I've never been much of lingerie buyer. When I was younger, I didn't have the body to wear it. As I got older, I started being somewhat practical with my underwear. It's only been the past year (?) that I've bought anything out of the ordinary, and most of those items would be considered ordinary for anyone else.
I will say that, when viewing it on others, or taking it off others, it's really not about the color, but about the texture. Silk and satin with a touch of lace ... mmmm ....
2. Do you have a porn collection?
I have several DVD's and a handful of favorite porn sites, one of which just happens to have a very personal video of my own on it *wink*
3. Do you have any fetishes?
According to the IFSHA Sex Glossary, fetish is defined as, "A sexual fixation on a concept, object, or body part. A person with a fetish feels a compulsive need to use the object in order to obtain sexual gratification, and cannot achieve pleasure without it."
Nope! No fetishes here because I can always find some other "concept, object or body part" that affords me sexual gratification. Whew!
4. What is your favorite place to have sex?
Ummm ... ANY place?? OK, I like the "danger" of public sex - does that qualify as a fetish?? Of course not - I'm on question 4 now ...
5. Do you like to scratch, bite, pull hair, etc? Do you like having it done to you?
I like pleasing my partner. If my partner likes to be scratched, bitten, or have his/her hair pulled, then I'm right there on it. Personally, I enjoy occasional rough sex - spanking (but only if you leave a hand print), pinching/biting my nipples (HARD) and maybe a few other "physical stimuli " that intensify the physical side of sex.
Bonus: Do you think the number of sexual partners you've had is below average, average, or above average, and how does that make you feel?
Average for a 16-year old girl, or average for a 50-year old porn star?? I have no idea what the "average" is, but I'm guessing I'm likely a
Quite frankly, I think our society is WAY hung up (*gigglesnort* I said "hung") on sex, number of sex partners, sexual orientation, etc. No one would question it if I went to a salon to get a massage 4 times a week from a different masseur, but if I have sex 4 times a week with a different partner, the whispering starts. Both offer physical pleasure ...
*shrugs*
*EDIT* According to Matt-Man (via Covert Lover), the average woman will have sex with nine lovers over the course of her lifetime. Yeah ... I'm just a few (I ran out of fingers and toes) above average ...
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49 comments:
"pinching/biting my nipples (HARD)" - just reading that made my nipples hurt! lol
Enjoyed all of your answers - and I didn't even think of lingerie textures - but you are so right!
Happy TMI!
My porn collection is kept online and various websites. I don't have any DVDs.
I don't really know what the big deal about number of sex partners is either. It's another way to judge people I guess. Who cares if somebody gets married at 18 and never has sex with anyone other than his/her spouse, or if someone has had lots and lots. It just doesn't matter to me as long as they're not hurting anyone they should be allowed to live their life.
/I haven't really had that many sex partners. Doesn't seem to have been my choice most of the time though. ;-)
Pinching and biting nipples hard!!? Leaving a hand print on your ass!!? Screw this Blog Crush thing...I'm in love!! Cheers Dana!!
Covert, those were GREAT questions! You gave me lots to work with!!
Jay, you have a porn collection?? No way!! We'll have to work on that sexual partner number, but my guess is it has something to do with living in Arkansas *wink*
Matt-Man, can you reach from there???
Silk is nice. Very nice.
Yes. Americans are hung up on sex. The bloody Puritans made sex “nasty” and “forbidden” and that draws adolescents like a bear to honey. Oh! That’s another thing about American culture: I believe that the majority of Americans are stuck/fixated in/on adolescence.
*nods* I agree completely with your bonus answer...
I'm not sure why a particular number is good or bad... I mean, if you slept with one completely low-life versus 5 high-quality persons, which is truly better?
Happy TMI!
Our #4's are the same. I luv the *rush* too ; )
Luv'd how U answered the bonus. It's true what U said about the whispering & hang(lol)*up of it all. It just *is* what it *is* ; )
Awesome answers! Happy TMI Dana! ; )
Oh i love your open and honest answers and they are very interesting indeed. Me thinks i need to know more about #2 ;)
Happy TMI
GREAT, GREAT answers this week! I love and absolutely agree with you on your bonus answer. ;) Happy TMIT!
I used to have a garbage bag full of porn tapes when I lived in DC. Giving that bag away was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do...
Nick, I'm all about how things feel. If they are beautiful, but scratchy, who needs them?
Ms. I, it does seem that the higher that number is for men, the more virile they appear, and the higher that number is for women, the more "used" she is.
IS2M, maybe I should put the number on a T-Shirt and wear it around town *wink*
Mike, no one gets the goods on #2! *giggle*
Redneck, I will say that this number seems to be less of an issue the older you get. Once you're over 40, people assume you've had sex!
Corky, what? You gave porn away? And you didn't give it to me?
Damn thats a shame lol ;)
Sex sex sex as Oliver might say, may I have some more please. Geeze if that number were true I'd of been better than half dead before getting out of high school. Rough sex not really. Porn, like it don't own any. Well I own three but they are wack. Can't bring myself to go into the "Happy" store HA! I know, order on line, order via snail mail. What can I say, I'm porn deprived and a little lazy HA!
I grabbed my own breasts and squealed internally at the biting of them hard! You wild thing you!
I agree about the massage and sex. Man, I'd take either (if it were good) 4 times a week! Sounds nice. :)
What about when the massage gives you an orgasm? What does that count as?
;)
Great answers!
And nine is what MM considers average? I think he needs to take a new poll.
I agree about number of sexual partners. It really doesn't say much about a person.
I like how you answered the questions so clinically. That made me laugh.
Mike, you wouldn't recognize me anyway - what good would it be? *giggle*
Lu, get your butt into the adult toy store! If nothing else, it's really fun to people watch there ...
FF, I can't even imagine having sex 4 times a week!! I mean, I can imagine ... in fact, it's what I do imagine!
RLL, can you please tell me where you are getting your massages and by whom?? Please??
Karen, that's what happens when I've had a few drinks before answering the TMI questions - I go full on geek!
Maybe so, but its the thought of knowning and seeing and a treat to one`s eyes even if i couldn`t recognize you. ;)
I'd be willing to fist fight Matt-Man for you! *giggle*
Happy TMI! - Loved your answers. It is interesting to me how women think.
Flyinfox_SATX
Eh, numbers shmumbers..
Who cares???
I'm not much into lingerie either. I guess I've never really given it a shot though.
I just can't believe that nine number. It's really unfortunate people put such importance on it. I want us all to be back in the 60's and living like hippies but using condoms this time.
I want more info on #2 also.
It irritates me how there is a double standard on number of partners. If a man has tons he's a stud but a woman is a slut. How so? However, 9 surprised me. I'm way below that. Course, that's cause I was 12 when I got married!
Lacy makes me itch. I prefer the silk...maybe a little lace.
if anyone starts a rumble can you please be wearing only underwear and can you please do it in the sprinklers and can you please film it....
Mike, logic will get you no where *wink*
Leighann, did you need a tarp and chocolate syrup?
Flyinfox, you said "women" and "think" in the same sentence *giggle*
M, I'm thinking I'll wait to give it a shot when there is someone who will appreciate it!
Knight, what? I'm not in the 60's?? Well, I was born in the 60's ... remember ... I'm OLD!
Apple, Nope! Not sharing ... not yet anyway *wink*
DB, something tells me you might watch 10 minutes of that smack down! *gigglesnort*
Those are great answers.. and talk about funny!
According to Matt-Man (via Covert Lover), the average woman will have sex with nine lovers over the course of her lifetime.
OMG I am a Ho!!!! Heh. Happy HNT.
Love your answers as always. Nine? Who in the hell was in charge of that study? I am such a slut. Biting and spanking-Yay!
Excellent answers....I also like the feel of a woman's lingerie more than being stimulated by colors...
Biting of nipples...OH YEAH BABY
Naughty K, glad I could make you giggle!
Queenie, yeah ... well ... I won't even tell you what the 9 lovers means in my world *grin*
Ambergail77, I don't know, however I think I hit the average before I turned 20!
Hell yea, no point in spanking unless you're leaving a hand print. When are you coming to visit again? ;)
someone that like things hard and will do what is require KEWL!
HTMIT
Bond, and I so like being stimulated by the feel of things than their color *wink*
Tali, I have to wait for Elisa to finish her visit ... or are we going to make her watch?!
ATLLG, I'm always up for a challenge!
*runs back in* I heard someone take the tarp out. I have my lace on. Where is the syrup?
What do you have planned for when *I* come to visit? *evil grin*
Oh, what a tease! You're not going to link us? So what if we won't recognize you. We'll have fun TRYING to :)
Ooooooooooooh. I *like* this one. My answers would be pretty close to yours, Dana. Gnymph doesn't seem to care much about lingerie, so I really don't have any. Texture is a big deal to me, it has the power to change the whole experience! As for partners... Ummmmmmm..... I think I've had more partners since I've been married than some people have their whole lives. I don't count anymore, unless I want to feel dirty. ;0)
Knight, you have really good ears!
Apple, will you be wearing silk or satin??
Biscuit, but, if I link you you'll know it's me! You may have already seen me and didn't even know it!
Boo(duh), I quit counting when I's already used all my fingers and toes - I think I was 22 when that happened *wink*
pinch and bite... I just had flashbacks of my weekend.
Anndi, you lucky girl you!
Silk of course! I am nothing if not high-end.
Nine is average? Holy Crap! Really? Well, I'm about twice that, and I had a friend that once told me she had been with over 50 guys, but not sure if I believe her, unless she was a prostitute, cause she was NOT that great to look at it.
I agree on the bonus, BUT fortunately I really think that is changing quite a bit.
And your #1, TOTALLY agree. :)
I'm an old guy. If anyone thinks that sex is screwed up so to speak now, they should've been an adult or teenager in the 60s. Of course things changed in the latter part of the 60s but things were still screwed up. I remember being at another couple's house for dinner and the hostess looked at me and my wife and said "you're the only couple we haven't swapped with." I sort of grinned and looked at the lady and thought I would never be that desperate. My Irish Catholic ex-wife was horrified but said nothing. Surprise to say, almost everyone I knew in graduate school that was part of the swapping got divorced. When I got to Denver in the early 70s all hell was breaking loose, but that's another story.
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