25 February 2008

Female Orgasms - What You Want (Need?) To Know

A few weeks ago I posted my first TMI Tuesday. One of the questions was, "How many types of orgasms have you experienced?" There were a few of you - OK, it was Jay and R.E.H. - who posted comments indicating they'd be interested in hearing about the different types of female orgasm. Well, I was needing something to write about today and thought maybe it was time to explore this - and boy did I explore!


The general consensus is that there are three different ways for a woman to reach orgasm: stimulation of the clitoris, vaginal stimulation (includes G-spot stimulation), or stimulation of both simultaneously. And yes, some women do experience female ejaculation (the release of a prostatic fluid-like substance) as part of a vaginal or combined orgasm. Where there is a great difference is in the duration and intensity of an orgasm. Duration and intensity differ from woman to woman and from one sexual experience to the next.


The most common orgasm in women is a single orgasm - one in which the woman experiences one rush of pleasure. This type of orgasm can last anywhere from a few seconds to over a minute.


Then we have sequential multiple orgasms - orgasms that occur in sequence, separated by a few minutes. Sequential multiple orgasms are often described as a roller coaster ride (a really good roller coaster ride I might add).


The ultimate in female orgasms? Well, this would be the multiple orgasm; an orgasm that occurs when several orgasms are had in a row (one right after the other without delay). Uncommon, but well worth working towards.


As Southern Sage commented, "I don't know how many types of orgasms I've had but I am sure I liked every kind a whole damn lot!!!" I'd have to agree with that.

24 comments:

Christo Gonzales said...

reminds me of an old pepperidge farm cookie commercial where he says "my favorite, a full bag" I like all of em..

Unknown said...

I've had them all, and I've LOVED them all! I must be one of the lucky girls! It's about time I'm lucky at something!

Leighann said...

I think I'll go have one right now! ;)

Doc said...

Reading your blog is always so educational !

Dana said...

DB, I know that I like all of 'em!

Bina, sometimes it's better to be lucky than it is to be good!

Leighann, I had one while "researching," I think it's only fair that you share in the joy!

Dana said...

Doc, I aim to please ... or is that I please to aim??

Jay said...

That's fascinating. I've also learned from porn movies that women have orgasms while performing oral sex on men. ;-)

I wonder which is better ... The long-lasting massive orgasm or the rapid-fire several orgasms in a row?

Real Live Lesbian said...

I must say that my fav is the combined with the ejaculation. But hey...that's just me.

And Jay, I prefer the big ol' whoppin' massive one timer. Kinda like fireworks. The little firecrackers are ok, but if you have the money...the big ones are the best.

Dana said...

Jay, I can confirm that orgasms can be had while giving oral sex.

RLL, I'm all for the combined with ejaculation as well and would agree that the "massive one timer" is almost always the most intense!

buffalodick said...

A quote I once heard, "The worst sex I ever had was still incredible"...

Schmoop said...

I have always had an incredibly accurate G-Spot finder. And I have been called "The Big-O". It's a gift really. Cheers Dana!!

g-man said...

All good stuff to know here. Do you have any control over which one is going to happen? Can you influence the "O"ut cum? (A double pun, I slay me)

captain corky said...

I always learn so much here! I've been striving my whole life to achieve the male multiple orgasm. I've come very, very close, but no cigar.

Dana said...

Buff, I think I might have to refine that statement to say, "The worst ORGASM I ever had was still incredible," because I've had some bad sex!

Matt-Man, I can't have ant claims from commenters that aren't verified ... how soon can you be here??

G-Man, I think for me (and maybe most women?) so much of the process is mental that yes, I can sometimes influence the "O"ut cum!

Dana said...

Corky, if you can patent that move men everywhere will pay for your secret!

Jahooni said...

I am going to sound bad on this one but I have had them without even having sex with someone or with myself. Kinda like what Jay is saying. It is true and I am one of those... i don't want to explain it.

Dana said...

Jahooni, no need to explain to me - I'm the woman who often is awoken in the middle of the night by a "nocturnal" orgasm - no fondeling required!

R.E.H. said...

Thanks for enlighting me on the subject of female orgasms ;) I'd been looking forward to this one.

Now, if a guy was to have a single orgasm that would last over a minute... we'd need some serious fluid reserves to tap into ;)

I think I would like to experience the sequential multiple orgams though... as a guy, you know (and not being completely drained after that first one) ;)

Anonymous said...

Ha...that was the simplest, yet most powerful statement yet :) Right??!

You can Call me AL said...

GREAT ! Now I really don't understand women! Look, all I know is about the guy in the boat and it's my job to kick him out, REPEATILY!!!!

Oh, the orgasm in 3 ways... We guys have choices for you ladies too.
1.DUCK!
2.Swallow
3.Enjoy the warmth ;)

Jeff B said...

I feel ripped off being a man! Damn it, I want a minute long orgasm.

Dana said...

R.E.H., sorry that I couldn't do a pictoral on this one. Maybe a video wouls have worked??

Slick, simple is good!

Al, you crack me up!

Dana said...

Jeff, sometimes it's good - no, GREAT - to be a woman!

Anonymous said...

Hmm...I just have to kind of go with it and hope she enjoys it. Way too much work to be worrying about what kind I can give her. My one saving grace is that if the first one ain't what she's looking for...the "equipment" remains ready to deliver another;) Through 3 or 4 of my own. But thanks for all of the info. My policy is to enjoy but not anaylyze.

Take care,
FMD