My husband has no idea that I have a blog, or that I participate in HNT, yet I sometimes take my half-nekkid photos while he is in the next room and I am often sitting not more than 5 feet away from him when I am cropping and downloading those half-nekkid photos to my blog.
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Do you think that you do these things so recklessly because part of you wants him to discover your secret? To see if he would even care?
Ditto That!
Not the sharpest tool in the shed, is he?
I PROMISE I WON'T TELL YOUR HUSBAND YOUR SUNDAY SECRET, CROSS MY FINGERS AND HOPE TO DIE.
Its suprising what one dose without the OH knowning.
That kinda makes you some type of reverse voyuer. Cheers Dana!!
Wow, so he really doesn't know you at all, does he?
Hmmm, I bet he'd have a thing or twenty two to say about it too if he found out. My hubby knows I blog. He jokes and puts an L on his forhead for losers. I say, at least I am talking to other people where as you staring at the tv, well... I think he gets a little jealous? I don't think he reads my blog at all. He had seen the old one. I don't even know if he knows I've changed it.
I like your current Sunday Secret. :) Should be an interesting day when he finally figures it out.
I understand. Some of us just need our own little space, especially those of us who don't feel we have the partner we'd really like to have. I envy you for having your own private place.
It sort of makes the whole thing doubly delicious. Proving he is so clueless would make me happy.
Wow! You naughty naughty woman ;)
Jenni, I don't know. For the most part, HNT's are done when I know he won't be home, however the urge to do the HNT outweighs the risk when he is home. I think adrenaline plays a part.
SS, I figured you were in the same boat.
Buff, it's not that he isn't sharp, it's that as long as it doesn't impact him, he doesn't care.
Doomed, well it certainly wouldn't be in your best interest!
Mike, it's actually kind of scary.
Matt-Man, I'm a voyeur forward and backward!
Dana, Yes i suppose it could be. I`m a little in the same boat as you , but where as mine knows, she prefers not to take part/read
Well, well, well,
you go on with your bad self!
I was where Mike was. When my ex finally read he still got . it. wrong. LOL
although HNT isn't an attraction on my little weblog....most of the people in my life do not know about my weblog. My kids know although only my oldest visits.
A few months ago I struggled with the decision to tell the person I have an significant realionship with.
I did finally...mostly because it is a fast track way to get to know me. And when you are first all gaa-gaa with someone you want to be completely honest. That has not always worked out so well for me in the past....smile.
I too wondered how he would feel if he were to find out about it...
FF, no ... he really doesn't ...
Lu, oh, I'm certain he'd not be happy - at all. What's funny though is that I think his irritation wouldn't be so much at the HNT (or anything else I post), but rather at the idea that he didn't know about it.
Nolens Volens, I hope he never does.
Biscuit, having the private space is a nice release - a place where I can just be me without having to worry about disappointing anyone.
Karen, I hadn't looked at it that way, but there is some satifaction in knowing he doesn't control everything.
Garbonzo, guilty, as charged!
Mike, I wonder if that wouldn't make me feel worse?
tt, I plan on it *giggle*
Turnbaby, and my guess is that is what would happen with mine.
pathetic really, why do you have such juvenile secrets...I remember when you would hop all over my google reader because you 'spotted' something. Is not this a little 'queer' that you have so much to hide? *wink*
Maybe your playing with fire by keeping it a secret but I definitly get, the adrenalin factor. It might get you "knocked" off that fence.
There are a few blogs that I visit that my wife says she does not like. That's OK, she's a "good girl from old school" and she keeps me in line as a "good boy"
And were both very OK with that!
Kat, it is a fine line - knowing if it is better to keep it a secret - wondering if there really would be a problem if he were to find out - or for that matter, any interest at all.
Mike, I don't know that it really is so different as it might seem from first glance.
DB, pathetic, really, that you keep coming back here in what I assume is an attempt to stir the pot. I can't imagine you have any genuine interest in anything I have to say. You seem to garner your pleasure in your futile attempts to put me down. Yes, pathetic, really ...
Your probably right, just a different perspective.
I just think you enjoy having control over something that he's clueless about. And I like that!
Frankly, I hope he never finds out. I like you this way! ;)
yup you nailed it...pathetic - really. Remember, you found me.
*giggle* *wink* and *cheers*
Micky, then again, maybe it wouldn't be a problem at all. Maybe I am making far too much out of this. I'd like to think it would matter but *shrugs*
RLL, I like me this way too - it'd the most genuine that I am "allowed" to be!
DB, *shakes head* Jealously makes you look green. Yes, I stumbled upon you first, and I had enough sense to walk away when it became clear it was a bad fit. Time for you to do the same.
Maybe if he did find out about the blog it wouldn't be such a bad thing. At least something would change.
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you erased my comment
your forum people filled me in...big time....
DB (and the rest of my readers), yes I did! And I did that because you are now clearly operating with nothing more than malicious intent. I've politely asked you to address whatever issue you have with me off blog and you have ignored that request. At this point, I will not allow you to monopolize my comments for your warped gratification. Feel special - you are the first commentor I've ever had to delete. Hopefully you'll be the last.
doggybloggy seems to be an ass...
He may not be "clueless". He may just be giving you some personal breathing space.
Hmmmmmmmmmm... I suppose some marital communication is best as non-communication.
Knight, that is a thought. Hard to fence sit when everything is out in the open!
Os, given his moniker, I might have chosen a different term of endearment.
Richard, I hadn't even considered that, but it's a bit of a terrifying thought!
My ex knew I blogged and did not give a crap (one of the things that eventually drove us apart...her not caring about things that were important to me)
Nancy knows of course and enjoys it...what a difference..
HEY..can you set up your webcam and Vlog one day you sitting on the couch together as you edit a HNT and he is sitting there clueless? bwahahahahahahahahahahah
My wife doesn't know about my "other life" on here either. She knows I read blogs but that is all. It is kinda fun to have a secret, eh!! Oh yeah a reverse voyeur is an exhibitionist. That one I know...
Nick, I sometimes wonder what the average number of secrets are in a "normal" marriage. I'd be surprised if everyone is totally honest.
Bond, you know, that vlogging idea just might work!
Nudeman40, so you are much in the same boat as I am. Husband is aware that I read blogs (although he might be surprised at the content of some of those blogs).
Yes she has no idea what kind of blogs I read or that I am even an exhibitionist. We have been to some nude beaches but she keeps saying to me "you must be an exhibitionist or something". DUH She might have trouble with the cam though. Then again it might turn her on. Don't relaay know. Like it the way it is.
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