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10 Things Thursday

1. This may have happened yesterday. Funny story - my dad HATED the fact that I had tattoos - only sluts had tattoos (and pierced ears) - so what did I do with what little $$$ was left over after the cremation/travel expenses? YEP! It's a memorial tattoo for my dad. For anyone who is curious, the mermaid is a symbol of elusiveness, wildness, freedom - legend points to mermaids being able to see clear to the core of a human - and the swallow is known to come down and lift souls to the heavens.
   
2. Apparently the new cooking method is sheet pan dinners. You throw everything on a sheet pan, put it in the oven, and serve it when it's done. I'm not going to lie - these 23 High-Protein Sheet Pan Dinners look pretty damn amazing.
3. As I've always suspected, Your success isn’t down to free will – luck determines everything. It's why one of my favorite sayings is, "I'd rather be lucky than good." 
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5. And ... ummmmm ... if you have a craving?
   
6. Did you know you can get Amazon packages delivered to your car? As long as you own a Chevrolet, Buick, GMC or Cadillac from 2015 or later, have an active OnStar account, and live in one of the 37 states that offer the service, you're good!
7. Can we talk about Melania Trump's "Be Best" campaign? On second thought? Let's not ...
8. I need this. My birthday is in July ... just sayin'
   
9. In case you are wanting to know if you are normal? The most popular spot for sex outside of the bedroom? Family/Living room. Personally? I want to meet those front yard people!!
10. And because ... LAS VEGAS ... we are attempting to set a record for the world's biggest orgy.  I'm thinking June 2nd might be booked for me *wink* 

TMI Tuesday | The meaning of life

(via TMI Tuesday Blog)

1. What makes you, you?

Can I just say that when I saw this was the first question for TMI Tuesday, I came *this close* to passing on the whole thing. 

Here's my deal ... I think this quote best sums up what makes me, me:

I myself am made entirely of flaws, stitched together with good intentions. ~ Augusten Burroughs

 2. Do you care more about doing the right thing or doing things right?

This is a no-brainer ... I care most about doing the right thing. I know that doing things "right" is elusive, but doing the right thing? That's about one's moral compass - it's not hard to figure out.

3. What is sexual freedom? Do you have it?

Hmmmm ... sexual freedom to me is being able to live your authentic sexual self. That's not always easy as social "norms" often battle with desires and needs. Do I have sexual freedom? Now more than ever, and I won't go back ...

4. In your romantic relationships, is trust more important than love?

Let me tell you a little story. Once upon a time there was a girl who met a boy. She was very apprehensive as she had met boys in the past who had broken her heart. She knew she wasn't the easiest girl to love - she was quirky - she needed someone in her life wh understood she wasn't "normal".

Fast forward six years. The girl has trusted the boy more than she has ever trusted anyone - she let her guard down. The boy started behaving strangely, and the girl started questioning her trust in the boy. The girl discovered the boy was professing his love to someone else. 

It was that EXACT moment that the girl realized that trust was FAR more important than love. 

 5. Your life, is it more of a dream or a nightmare?

GAHHHHH!!! It's a balance. Sometimes it feels like a nightmare, but I know the dream will come.

Bonus:  What is the last romantic thing you did for someone?

This is tough. Romance left my relationship with Mike over a year ago. He was romancing someone else - I was desperately holding on. Since January of last year, my life has been far more sex than romance. I miss romance - I miss being romantic - I've got nothing ...