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I'm indulging myself in frivolous mind candy today and participating in TMI Tuesday. It's rainy here and my brain feels a bit rusted.
1. Are you pro-marriage? Why or why not?
I am pro-healthy relationships and pro-realistic decision to marry.
I don't believe that marriage it is the only way to secure a committed, long-term relationship, and I don't believe that a committed, long-term relationship is the best place for everyone. I've also known far to many people who have gotten married (me included) who had absolutely no realistic expectation of what marriage would be, nor did they have the commitment to stick with it when the going got tough. Marriage isn't immediate gratification, nor is it the "prize", but rather it is the beginning of many, many years of hard - sometimes overwhelming - work.
2. Have you ever invented or thought you invented a sexual position?
Let's see ... people have been having sex for thousands of years and I think I've come up with something new? I don't think so, although I've certainly given it my best shot at times.
3. Do you like to be tied up? Always or sometimes?
I like a busy schedule most days, but like my time to relax too.
Ohhhh ... You were asking about being tied up during sex? Honestly, I don't know! No one has ever gone there with me!
4. Do you consider online cybering adultery?
For the sake of clarification, I'll assume "online cybering" means engaging in sexual discussions, performing sexual acts via webcam, etc. for someone other than one's spouse/significant other.
I'm going to play with semantics here. My personal definition of adultery is extramarital, physical sex. Physically, cybering isn't adultery, the real question is, is it emotional adultery?
I would say that emotional adultery is what we commonly call infidelity, or the violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of the primary, committed relationship (physical or emotional). I think "online cybering" falls into that latter category.
5. Do you prefer masturbation over real sex?
You're kidding, right?
6. Do you want sex more times a day than your partner?
I want sex more times per day, more times per week, more times per month, more times per year, more times per decade ... are you noticing a pattern here?
7. Do you get offended when you partner openly flirts with others or are you okay with it?
Husband is an extremely outgoing person - friendly with everyone. He's not inappropriate with his attention to other women so I feel no threat at all.
8. Do you think you're flirty by nature?
GAHHH ... no! I might be flirty on this blog on occasion, and in my comments, but in real life? I don't have the self-confidence to pull off flirty.
I am pro-healthy relationships and pro-realistic decision to marry.
I don't believe that marriage it is the only way to secure a committed, long-term relationship, and I don't believe that a committed, long-term relationship is the best place for everyone. I've also known far to many people who have gotten married (me included) who had absolutely no realistic expectation of what marriage would be, nor did they have the commitment to stick with it when the going got tough. Marriage isn't immediate gratification, nor is it the "prize", but rather it is the beginning of many, many years of hard - sometimes overwhelming - work.
2. Have you ever invented or thought you invented a sexual position?
Let's see ... people have been having sex for thousands of years and I think I've come up with something new? I don't think so, although I've certainly given it my best shot at times.
3. Do you like to be tied up? Always or sometimes?
I like a busy schedule most days, but like my time to relax too.
Ohhhh ... You were asking about being tied up during sex? Honestly, I don't know! No one has ever gone there with me!
4. Do you consider online cybering adultery?
For the sake of clarification, I'll assume "online cybering" means engaging in sexual discussions, performing sexual acts via webcam, etc. for someone other than one's spouse/significant other.
I'm going to play with semantics here. My personal definition of adultery is extramarital, physical sex. Physically, cybering isn't adultery, the real question is, is it emotional adultery?
I would say that emotional adultery is what we commonly call infidelity, or the violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of the primary, committed relationship (physical or emotional). I think "online cybering" falls into that latter category.
5. Do you prefer masturbation over real sex?
You're kidding, right?
6. Do you want sex more times a day than your partner?
I want sex more times per day, more times per week, more times per month, more times per year, more times per decade ... are you noticing a pattern here?
7. Do you get offended when you partner openly flirts with others or are you okay with it?
Husband is an extremely outgoing person - friendly with everyone. He's not inappropriate with his attention to other women so I feel no threat at all.
8. Do you think you're flirty by nature?
GAHHH ... no! I might be flirty on this blog on occasion, and in my comments, but in real life? I don't have the self-confidence to pull off flirty.
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